Chastity Play Guide

Increase your desire with orgasm denying chastity devices

Chastity devices, used in a type of BDSM play called orgasm denial, or chastity play, are becoming increasingly popular. Chastity play involves making your willing lover highly sexually aroused, sometimes for extended periods of time, without the possibility of release.

Denying an orgasm over a longer time increases anticipation and makes the eventual release feel so much more powerful! Chastity play can be a harmless and fun way to kick your intimacy up a notch, giving your partner complete control over your pleasure levels.

What is BDSM chastity play?

Chastity play is a form of bondage role play, involving power and submission. It can be a big turn-on to give your partner such intimate control over your genital pleasure…and it can just be plain fun to experiment erotically together.

Are you up for this pleasurable ordeal that will increase your sexual anticipation to almost unbearable levels? Just think about that long-awaited moment of ecstatic release! Whether racy chastity belts or fierce cock cages are more your fancy, treat yourself to something from our full range of chastity devices.

Chastity cages

If you fancy the idea of having power over your partner’s sexual release, and your partner is willing to surrender control over his orgasm to you, then a chastity cage (or cock cage) is something you’ll enjoy.

A chastity cage fits around your partner’s penis, preventing them from getting an erection. You have total control over where, when, and how often your partner is allowed to enjoy release, and you leave them with absolutely nothing they can do about it. You’re literally holding the key to their orgasm – so they better be nice to you!

By preventing your partner from achieving an erection for an extended period of time, their eventual climax will be explosive.

Browse our full range of chastity cages and choose from a wide selection of styles and materials, including stainless steel, silicone and leather chastity cages, to cock locks with butt and penis plugs. These chastity devices can be both painful and tantalising at the same time, and provide ample ways to explore kinky sex play, but most importantly, a lot of fun!

If chastity play has caught your eye, then you may want to consider the Rouge Stainless Steel Chasity Cock Cage With Padlock (pictured).

Rouge Stainless Steel Chasity Cock Cage With Padlock | Chastity Cage | Rouge | Bodyjoys
Regular price £59.99
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This high-quality stainless steel chastity cock cage from Rouge is one of the best-selling devices for orgasm denial play. When his cock is trapped in this steel fortress, he may moan and groan, but he won’t be able to achieve a firm erection, limiting his stimulation and satisfaction. This stylish penis cage with its curved spine is the perfect device for comfortable, long-lasting sex play.

For a lightweight cage made of hypoallergenic medical-grade polycarbonate, check out the Man Cage 01 Male 3.5-Inch Black Chastity Cage (pictured, available in different size and colours).

Man Cage 01 Male 3.5 Inch Black Chastity Cage | Chastity Cage | Shots Toys | Bodyjoys
Regular price £54.99
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The black Man Cage 01 chastity cage from Shots Toys takes your kinky erection and orgasm denial play to the next level. The stylish device is perfectly designed for comfortable, long-lasting sex play. The penis cage is made of hypoallergenic medical-grade polycarbonate, a very lightweight and durable material.

And for a super soft, blubbery chastity cage, take a look at the Oxballs’ Airlock Rubbery Airflow Chastity Cage (pictured).

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Oxballs Airlock Rubbery Airflow Chastity Cage Black | Chastity Cage | Oxballs | Bodyjoys
Regular price £99.99
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The black Airlock from Oxballs’ AIR line is a super blubbery, soft chastity cage that’s light-weight and ventilated. The rubber cock lock has a built-in sling at the base that grips your balls and keeps the Airlock snug in place. Holes throughout the shaft and at the tip double as drainage holes for “piss n’ jizz“ play, or to fit electro contacts.

Chastity belts

How long could you stand your sexual arousal without the possibility of release? Find out with our erotic torture devices, which will put your tolerance to the test.

Our leather chastity belts allow your partner to take control of your orgasm by making the all-important G-spot and C-spot completely inaccessible. Submitting yourself to your partner and surrendering your desires will leave you begging for mercy, making the end result truly mind-blowing.

Chastity belts are designed to be comfortable to wear for an extended period of time allowing you to totally submit to your partner’s will. Indulge in your deepest, kinkiest desires and hope your partner doesn’t lose the keys!

Browse our full range of comfortable and kinky chastity belts.

If you like the look and feel of leather, then you should try the Leather Chastity Brief by Rimba (pictured).

Leather Chastity Briefs | Chastity Belt | Rimba | Bodyjoys
Regular price £76.99
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Experiment with the erotic torture of abstinence play with these leather chastity briefs by Rimba. The chastity belt is designed to be comfortable to wear for an extended period of time, while preventing access to your most intimate parts. The chastity briefs feature two holes in crotch and a size-adjustable belt with a padlock front.

Play with caution

Remember, fetish toys are not designed to harm or cause pain (unless explicitly requested!) but rather to create pleasurable and sensual experiences that support you and your partner in exploring, enjoying, and knowing each other more deeply.

Always communicate with your partner, ensure you agree on a safe word beforehand, be considerate, start slow and continuously check in with your partner on how they’re feeling. Trust is essential in BDSM play, and the ability to empathise can strengthen your bond and take your sex life to a whole new level.