Penis & Balls Play Guide

Enjoy heightened sensation from cock and ball play… and torture

Penis and balls play is a BDSM activity involving pain-pleasure sensations, in which different devices are used on the penis and testicles to either cause pain or constriction.

If you’re new to the game and looking for a taster, start off slow and simple, and work your way up to the more hardcore toys and devices.

The advanced CBT (cock and ball torture) practitioner will relish our different types of stainless steel ball stretchers, penis plugs and urethral sounds.

Browse our full range of penis and ball play toys.

Ball stretchers and dividers

Yes, testicle stretching sounds a bit exotic and sometimes even a little scary to some. But in fact, the practice is much more widely used that you’d think, providing intense sensations that increase your desire and sex drive. It’s really worth a try!

Wearing testicle stretchers boosts your stamina and makes masturbation and sexual intercourse more intense, with longer-lasting orgasms. This kinky play combines fun, pain and pleasure – you can’t ask for more!

Ball stretchers and ball dividers work by elongating the scrotum, making it much more sensitive to touch, and providing a pulling feeling which stimulates the sensation of arousal. Begin with a gentle tug to increase your arousal and for some extra pain-pleasure fun, work up to a torturous stretch with an adjustable ball stretcher.

Ball stretchers come in a variety of styles, sizes, materials and weights, so experiment to find your favourite. Some testicle dividers even come with O-rings to attach hanging weights, or a leash if that tug really does it for you, or if your partner would like to take control. Check out our fantastic range of ball stretchers and dividers.

If you fancy trying a worldwide best-seller, then consider Oxballs’ Cock Sling 2 Cock And Ball Ring (pictured).

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Oxballs Cocksling 2 Cock And Ball Ring Black | Ball Stretcher | Oxballs | Bodyjoys
Regular price £34.99
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Oxballs state “the Cocksling 2 is the absolute best cock ring we have ever made – we have worn em to fuck, stroke, for piss play and blow jobs, we wear em under gear for a bigger bulge, and we are sure you have done exactly the same! Over the last 3 years we sold more Cocksling 2s than all our other toys combined. That amazes even us, there have been copycats, but none have ever matched the fit, look and feel of our original – it really is the best cock and ball toy you will ever use!“

…and with a ball-divider, take a look at the Ballsling With Ball-Splitter Cock Ring from Oxballs (pictured).

Oxballs Ballsling With Ball-Splitter Cock Ring Black | Ball Stretcher | Oxballs | Bodyjoys
Regular price £39.99
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Oxballs recently introduced the special edition Ballsling with ball splitter. This black Ballsling has everything you love about the original Cocksling, but its design is thicker, softer and offers more bang for your balls. The built-in sack ring at the base of the Ballsling has a thick strap that presses down on your scrotum and acts as a ball divider.

Cock straps and harnesses

Cock straps and cock harnesses not only make your penis and balls look the part, but the firmness around your penis and scrotum also provides you with a stronger and longer lasting erection. You’ll be able to go for longer and the extra support will even increase the power of your orgasm, making them suitable for use during sex or masturbation.

Shop our full range of cock straps and harnesses. There’s one to suit every style, and each comes with its own aesthetic and practical advantages. Try them all to see which suits you best.

If you like a masculine leather look, then take a look at Leather Cock Ring Strap from Rimba (pictured).

Rimba Leather Cock Ring Strap | Cock Strap | Rimba | Bodyjoys
Regular price £28.99
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This scrotum tube with strap from Rimba gives your penis and balls a raunchy fetish look. In addition to these aesthetic features, this cock ring strap gives you a firmer, longer lasting erection and provide extra stimulation during sexual intercourse and masturbation.

Or if you fancy a super-stretchy doughnut made from silicone, we recommend the Big OX Super Mega-Stretch Silicone Cock Ring from Oxballs (pictured).

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Oxballs Big OX Super Mega-Stretch Silicone Cock Ring Cool Ice | Cock Strap | Oxballs | Bodyjoys
Regular price £18.99
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Whether you’re looking for a bulge booster to fill your favourite jockstrap pouch, a firmer erection to fill a hungry hole, or just want to wear a cock ring for that sexy look and feel, the Big OX Super Mega-Stretch cock ring has you covered. Cool ice Big OX is a thick, ultra-squishy cock ring to grip you meat and make you harder and bigger.

Urethral sounds and penis sounding

Urethral sounding, or urethral play, is the practice of directly stimulating the prostate and tantalising the urethral sphincter using metal, silicone or glass sounding rods that are placed inside the urethra.

While it sounds a little ‘out there,’ many users claim that sounding is their most preferred form of stimulation – being stimulated from the inside of the penis feels amazing, in particular when combined with masturbation.

This is why sounding produces a truly unique sensation, unlike anything you’ve experienced before. However, for most users, the main benefit of inserting a toy into the urethra is a more powerful and longer-lasting orgasm.

Our full range of urethral sounds includes a daring selection of stainless steel and silicone sounding rods and plugs, urethral penis plugs, urethral stretchers, sperm stoppers and vibrating dilators. Reward yourself with overwhelming sensations during explorative BDSM play.

New to sounding and looking for a premium vibrating sound that will send you over the edge? Get the new Vibrating Urethral Stimulation Mens Dilator, made from silicone (pictured).

Vibrating Urethral Stimulation Mens Dilator | Urethral Sound | You2Toys | Bodyjoys
Regular price £24.99
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This vibrating silicone urethral dilator from You2Toys is a great device for exploring new realms of internal pleasure. The extra-long sound is the perfect choice for deep urethral play, it will reach all the way down your shaft, maybe even your P-spot. Stimulating the hyper-sensitive nerve endings in your urethra with the silky-smooth, vibrating wand will give you pleasure and satisfaction beyond your imagination.

More advanced players may want to look at the captivating Vibrating Penis Plug from You2Toys (pictured).

Vibrating Penis Plug | Urethral Sound | You2Toys | Bodyjoys
Regular price £29.99
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Unleash the massive Vibrating Penis Plug from You2Toys. This striking creation is your ticket to a realm of captivating massages, alluring stretches, and sublime control over your release. The sleek and sensitive design features a tapered tip for easy insertion, while the discreet silicone-encased vibrator adds an extra layer of sensation, conveniently activated at the press of a button.

Or tantalise your urethral sphincter and enjoy amazing sensations with the Cum Through Play Stainless Steel Penis Plug by You2Toys (pictured).

Cum Through Play Stainless Steel Penis Plug | Urethral Sound | You2Toys | Bodyjoys
Regular price £32.99
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Fancy cum through play? This stainless steel penis plug with stopper has a stimulating shape to tantalise your urethral sphincter. The urethral plug is cone-shaped and hollow, making it a good choice for arousing sperm and pee play.

Play with caution

Remember, fetish toys aren’t designed to harm, but rather to create new and exciting experiences which combine pleasure and pain in just the right way. Whether you’re playing alone or with a partner, start off small and find the right balance for you.

Always practice good communication with your partner, understand each other’s limits, and agree on a safe word before you begin.

Trust is paramount in BDSM play and it must be reciprocal. The ability to communicate with and pleasure your partner, while sharing the experience safely, will build on the bond you share and make your intimate experiences even more exciting.