Better Oral Sex Guide

Essentials to spice up your oral sex play

Oral sex is an essential part of any relationship. It helps to maintain an intimate and emotional bond with your partner, and can build up your anticipation and orgasmic potential before penetrative sex.

Ultimately, sex is a two-way street. You need to give a little to receive. Oral sex is the act of giving to your partner and showing them how much their pleasure means to you. It will make them feel closer to you and can be a massive ego boost for you too, knowing they love what you’re doing.

Remember that penetrative sex doesn’t always need to be your end goal. Oral sex can actually be more erotic, exciting, and bring you to an earth-shattering climax.

So, while your mouth is the pleasure organ for oral sex, there are toys and accessories out there that can enhance the experience, drive your partner wild, and give you a treat too.

Oral sex toys for couples

Everyone out there, on some level, enjoys oral pleasure, and when a couple really understands and focuses on each other’s needs, giving can be just as pleasurable as receiving.

You can add yet another level to oral sex if you introduce toys, either to enjoy your own stimulation at the same time as satisfying your partner, or to enjoy driving them wild with new sensations. And of course, it’s an added bonus for them if you moan from your own pleasure while you’re giving oral sex.

Our range of oral sex toys for couples, from blow job strokers to tongue vibrators and clitoral suction vibrators, is designed to add fun and heightened stimulation when giving and receiving fellatio and cunnilingus. Integrating some of these erotic devices into your bedroom play will change your routine and add new sensations and pleasures.

Browse our full range of oral sex toys for couples, but also our better oral sex essentials.

Clitoral suction vibrators

Clitoral suction vibes are one of the most popular sex toys as they’re pretty much guaranteed to deliver mind-blowing orgasms. The clitoris is much more sensitive than the G-spot due to the extra nerve endings it holds near the surface of the skin, and for most women, holds much more orgasmic potential.

A clit suction vibrator replicates the sensations you feel during oral sex, using air pulsing mechanisms and pressure waves. The toy doesn’t even need to touch your skin to get you going, and they can be easily used by your partner during foreplay (or by yourself during a solo session).

Adding a touch of water-based lube can increase the lifelike sensations of real cunnilingus and send your imagination flying.

Browse our full range of clitoral suction vibrators – we highly recommend the Lelo Sona Cruise Sonic Clitoral Massager (see picture).

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Lelo Sona Cruise Sonic Clitoral Massager Pink | Clitoral Suction Vibrator | Lelo | Bodyjoys
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With the pink Lelo Sona Cruise sonic massager, Lelo offers a new paradigm of pleasure, with a fluttering, pulsing sex toy that stimulates the entire clitoris for a different kind of orgasm. The sonic waves penetrate deeply throughout the sensitive, nerve-rich clitoral region, bringing you to a prolonged climax after a sensual build-up.

Blow job simulators

Male blow job masturbation toys are expertly designed to replicate the sensations of the real deal. Spoil your partner and combine your oral play with a BJ stroker to give them an unforgettable experience.

Alternatively, get assistance from a top-notch BJ machine that will provide all the satisfaction of real fellatio at the push of a button. No jaw ache involved! Can be enjoyed for as long and as many times as you like.

Shop our whole selection of blow job simulators. Our top pick is the Fleshlight Quickshot Turbo Blue Ice, but if you want to add some buzz to your play, why not choose the Satisfyer Men Vibration Blow Job Masturbator (see pictures)?

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Meet the Quickshot Turbo Blue Ice, the latest iteration of Fleshlight’s popular compact masturbation device for men. Crafted with Turbo Tech, this travel-friendly non-anatomical masturbator offers you a unique sensation that is snug, sucking, and gripping, setting it apart from anything you’ve experienced before. As you insert, Fleshlight’s patented suspended entry ring system securely grasps your erect member, enticing you to explore deeper.

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Satisfyer Men Vibration Blow Job Masturbator | Male Vibrator | Satisfyer | Bodyjoys
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The Men Vibration from Satisfyer is a blow job masturbator for men who know what they like. The sophisticated design of this premium male sex toy encloses your manhood in deep vibrations, giving you unbelievable pleasure and explosive orgasms. Choose from 14 tingling vibration patterns, start slow and work your way up to wild, or switch it up depending on your mood.

Flavoured lubricants

Lube is an essential item in any sex accessory arsenal and when it comes to oral, adding a little flavour can be a welcome treat. Flavoured lubricants come in sweet and fruity flavours to give your partner’s hot spots an extra tingle and make oral sex even more fun.

Flavoured lubes are a simple yet effective way to spice things up in the oral sex department without stepping too far out of your comfort zone. Give them a try!

We offer a whole range of flavoured lubes for extra taste sensations. If salted caramel is your favourite, then you will enjoy the Skins Salted Caramel Seduction Water-Based Lubricant (see picture).

Skins Salted Caramel Seduction Water-Based Lubricant 130ml | Flavoured Lube | Skins | Bodyjoys
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Transform into an insatiable treat with the incredibly smooth Salted Caramel Seduction lube from Skins Sexual Health. The combination of sweet, creamy caramel and a slightly salty note ensures that everything it touches tastes phenomenal – truly hedonistic. The premium quality lubricant is water-based and was developed with your sensual pleasure and satisfaction in mind.

Flavoured condoms

Condoms are a great way to protect yourself and your partner during oral and penetrative sex. But a bland blow job just isn’t as sexy. Try out flavoured condoms to add a little sugar to your foreplay. Featuring a wide range of flavours, from strawberry to mint, these condoms offer a fun way to switch up your lovemaking routine.

Browse our full range of flavoured condoms. For instance, check out the Skins Condoms Flavoured 12 Pack (see picture). If you have a sweet tooth, pair flavoured condoms with flavoured lubes for an extra treat.

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Skins’ Flavoured condoms are a tasty way to enjoy foreplay and add a little something extra to protected oral and penetrative sex. This pack comes with 4 different delicious flavours: strawberry, banana, mint and bubble gum. These condoms offer a fun way to switch up your lovemaking routine. "Never go in without a skin"®.

Oral dams

Oral dams allow you to enjoy safe oral pleasure. The thin, single-use latex sheets are placed over the vulva or anus for both cunnilingus and rimming (aka analingus). They support safe oral play while allowing maximum stimulation. For added sensation, try adding a little water-based lube behind the dam.

Browse our full range of oral dams or head straight for the ultra-thin Beffy Oral Pleasure Dams (see picture).

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The oral dams by Beffy are made of ultra-thin latex sheets for safe oral sex – the dams are recommended for both cunnilingus and analingus. Simply place a Beffy oral pleasure dam over the desired place and do not stretch. As the sheets are very thin, the oral contact is still incredibly sensitive and stimulating.