Bigger & Harder Penis Guide

Extend your reach and stamina to step things up in the bedroom

Size matters…and one size in particular. Is there a man out there who hasn’t measured up? And when measuring, who hasn’t tried to steal an extra inch from the ruler? You see – size seems to matter indeed! And more to penis-owners than their partners!

But in reality, size is not everything. When it comes to sex, above all you need stamina – the mental and physical capacity to perform in the bedroom. As penis size can influence the owner’s self-confidence, if size is an issue, size and stamina may well be interlinked through psychological aspects.

In the broad world of methods to enhance size and stamina, approaches typically fall under three different categories: devices, substances, and surgery. Our advice will focus on devices and substances that don’t require prescriptions or assistance from a doctor:

Cock rings to make your penis harder and boost your stamina

Cock rings are sex toys designed to boost your stamina. They can enhance pleasure in many different ways for both you and your partner. Cock rings are worn around the penis, typically at the base of the shaft, and sometime around the testicles, too.

Penis rings prevent blood flow from leaving the erect penis, thus producing a firmer erection and enhancing your sexual performance. Cock rings are among the world’s most popular sex toys. A few reasons why individuals and couples enjoy using them:

  • To make your penis harder and help you maintain a firm erection
  • To help you last longer and to intensify your orgasm
  • To enhance appearance and support genital adornment
  • To help those experiencing erectile dysfunction
  • To boost your sexual confidence and well-being

For further advice, check out our cock ring guides and browse our full range of exciting cock rings.

If you want to buy a true and trusted classic, consider the Nexus Enduro Stretchy Silicone Cock Ring or the Oxballs Cocksling 2 Cock And Ball Ring (see pictures).

Nexus Enduro Stretchy Silicone Cock Ring | Classic Cock Ring | Nexus | Bodyjoys
Regular price £10.99
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Stay harder for longer with the Nexus Enduro, a cock ring made of stretchy silicone. This high-quality penis ring restricts blood flow away from your erection, letting you maintain an impressive hard-on and increasing your sensitivity.

Oxballs Cocksling 2 Cock And Ball Ring Black | Ball Stretcher | Oxballs | Bodyjoys
Regular price £34.99
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Oxballs state “the Cocksling 2 is the absolute best cock ring we have ever made – we have worn em to fuck, stroke, for piss play and blow jobs, we wear em under gear for a bigger bulge, and we are sure you have done exactly the same! Over the last 3 years we sold more Cocksling 2s than all our other toys combined. That amazes even us, there have been copycats, but none have ever matched the fit, look and feel of our original – it really is the best cock and ball toy you will ever use!“

Penis pumps to make your erection bigger

Penis pumps are one of the most popular methods of enhancing the length and girth of a penis to enjoy longer-lasting sex. The vacuum erection pumps work by increasing blood flow to the penis, causing engorgement and creating a hard-on.

The effects of using a penile pump last for about 15 to 20 minutes, but this can be prolonged by using a cock ring to maintain the erection.

Some people use these penis enlargement devices as sex toys, as the fuller erections they give you mean extra fun and pleasure in the bedroom. The pumps in fact were originally designed as aids for those that have trouble getting or keeping an erection, or who experience erectile dysfunction (ED).

For those with ED, penis pumps can be an easy and effective way to help improve the quality of the erection and keep the penis hard long enough to have sex. Many people with ED find penis pumps a compelling solution, as the devices don’t require a prescription or assistance from a doctor. Penis pumps are easy to use, non-invasive, less costly than other ED treatment options and can be a good alternative to medication or injections.

Read more in our penis pump guide and shop our full range of penis pumps to start improving the quality of your erection.

If you asked us, we’d recommend the Pumped Automatic Rechargeable Luv Pump (pictured).

Pumped Automatic Rechargeable Luv Pump Black | Penis Pump | Shots Toys | Bodyjoys
Regular price £64.99
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This high-quality black penis pump by Shots Toys with a cylinder length of 20cm (7.8 inches) and an inner diameter of 6cm (2.36 inches) gives you ample room to grow in length and girth – you will be surprised how big you can get. The insertion sleeve is made from smooth, body-safe silicone. At the touch of a button, this incredibly powerful penis pump will create a strong vacuum that will give you a quick and firm erection. The soft silicone opening creates a comfortable yet tight seal. The pump is USB-rechargeable.

Penis sleeves and extenders for an instantly bigger penis

Think of penis sleeves, or penis extenders, as a kind of wearable dildos. While they are designed to extend your reach and step things up in the bedroom (keywords: longer, wider and firmer), they also have very practical sexual benefits and can enhance your sexual well-being.

Penis sleeves and extenders slip over your penis, giving you more length and girth, and are worn specifically during penetrative sex. Some of them are partially sheathed, leaving an opening for the glans, and other sleeves focus on adding girth to the shaft.

Many couples use penis sleeves as sex toys to enhance their sex lives, as the sleeves can enhance sexual pleasure for both partners. Penis extension aides allow you to more deeply and fully penetrate your partner with extra inches in length and girth.

However, penis sleeves were originally designed as aids for people with erectile dysfunction (ED) and those experiencing premature ejaculation (PE).

Penis sleeves have been helping men with ED for decades, hence in the medical profession they are referred to as external penile prosthetics. A sleeve can be slipped over a flaccid or partially-erect penis to give the person and their partner the sensation of a full hard-on.

In cases of PE, a penis sleeve worn during sex can be of great benefit. If the sleeve fully encases the penis like a condom, it reduces sensation and stimulation of the most sensitive parts of the penis, potentially delaying orgasm.

Shop our full range of penis sleeves and extenders and to learn more, take a look at our penis sleeves and extenders guide.

Would you like to extend by 2 inches? Take a look at the clear Size Matters 2-Inch Penis Extender Sleeve (see picture).

Size Matters 2 Inch Penis Extender Sleeve Clear | Penis Sheath | Size Matters | Bodyjoys
Regular price £39.99
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Give your cock a hefty extra length and texture with this hollow 2-inch clear extender sleeve from Size Matters. Realistically textured with a bulbous head and realistic veins, it features a subtle curve for mind-blowing internal massage. Lube it up and slide into the first hole, placing your scrotum through the lower hole for a pleasurable stretch.

If you desire a sheathed sleeve that leaves the glans uncovered, we recommend the transparent Sono No. 21 Dong Sleeve (see picture).

Sono No. 21 Dong Sleeve Transparent | Penis Sheath | Shots Toys | Bodyjoys
Regular price £34.99
Regular price Sale price £34.99

Increase your manhood by a couple of inches in comfort with the transparent Sono No. 21 dong sleeve from Shots Toys. The shape of this sleeve gives you excellent stimulation and the ball strap secures it snugly in place, even when you bust your best moves.

Penis development systems – a bigger penis for life

Not being totally happy with your penis is a common worry, but luckily there are plenty of options. Penis enlargement systems, or penis extenders, are the most popular method for growing your penis.

A penis developer is a mechanical traction device that is worn over the flaccid penis. It slightly stretches the tissue in order to make the penis bigger in both length and girth. Penis enlargement systems expand the skin tissue with a unique traction mechanism that stimulates new cell growth, resulting in an enlarged manhood that lasts a lifetime.

The traction technique is the only medically proven, non-surgical method to give you a longer and thicker penis. Unlike surgical penis extension procedures, however, the penile traction method (sometimes called penile traction therapy) doesn’t carry any serious risks.

Manufacturers of penis enlargement systems, such as market leader Danish MaleEdge, provide training programmes with step-by-step instructions together with their products. These typically last six months.

Penile traction devices can add the extra length and girth you desire, but you need to be patient and devoted. Visible results are most likely to happen with frequent use and gradual step-ups.

Intrigued to try the traction system for developing your penis? Browse our full range of penis developers, and read our penis enlargement guide for more detailed info.

If you want to buy a trusted penile traction device from a world-leading brand, then check out the Male Edge Pro Penis Developer (pictured).

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Male Edge Pro Penis Developer | Penis Developer | Male Edge | Bodyjoys
Regular price £157.49
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The Male Edge penis developer is a revolutionary new system to enlarge your penis – built for maximum results and for today’s lifestyle!

Hollow strap-ons guarantee a hard and ever-lasting erection

Hollow strap-ons enhance your natural penis, ensuring you always have a strong, lasting erection.

Simply place your package inside its hollow space. This strap-on allows you to pleasure your partner with extra length and girth. Some models even have a vibrator embedded to really supercharge the experience.

Hollow strap-ons can be used whether you are flaccid or erect, guaranteeing you a hard and lasting erection in almost any desired form and texture.

Hollow strap-ons are a wonderfully simple solution for couples struggling with erectile dysfunction (ED), allowing them to continue enjoying exciting physical intimacy.

Have a look at our range of hollow strap-ons and see what takes your fancy. Read more in our strap-on guides.

If you asked us, we’d recommend the Erection Assistant Hollow Vibrating 6-Inch Strap-On (see picture).

Erection Assistant Hollow Vibrating Strap-On 6 Inch Flesh Pink | Hollow Strap-On | Nasstoys | Bodyjoys
Regular price £99.99
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The white Erection Assistant hollow vibrating strap-on from Nasstoys gives your penis an instant upgrade. Insert your member into hollow cavity of the 6-inch realistic strap-on vibrator to add instant girth – but the device is also suitable to be worn by women. The Erection Assistant features a jock-style harness that comfortably accommodates most sizes (up to a 60-inch waist), press the button to the bottom right of the base to power it on, and to cycle through 7 vibration functions.

Performance boosters

Male performance enhancers are formulated to cause erections that are firmer, girthier and longer-lasting by increasing blood flow through your penis, all with the aim of letting you play harder and for longer.

Browse our range of male performance boosters, including supplements, penis enlargement gels, stimulants, pills and creams to enhance your performance. Intrigued but not sure what to choose? Take a look at the Skins Powerect Male Enhancement Cream (pictured).

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Skins Powerect Male Enhancement Cream 48ml | Male Performance Enhancer | Skins | Bodyjoys
Regular price £23.99
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The Powerect male enhancement cream by Skins is designed to boost your erection and stamina so you and your partner can enjoy longer arousal and love-making. The cream’s unique and concentrated formula is based on 100% natural ingredients specially selected to enhance your sexual performance. Skins’ enhancement cream is easy to use and delivers fast results.

These products and supplements offer an alternative to prescription medication and can potentially help enhance your sexual vitality. Please note that individual results may vary as people respond differently to these products.

Lasting-longer creams and delay sprays

Prolong the pleasurable journey to climax with our wide selection of products that help you last longer between the sheets. Our range of delay sprays, gels, creams and pills enhance your stamina and sexual energy in the bedroom so both you and your partner can enjoy longer-lasting erotic sessions and greater satisfaction in bed.

Delay sprays and creams typically contain a mild numbing ingredient that reduces penile sensitivity to increase your staying power. They are easy to apply and you will still feel everything you don’t want to miss out on.

Take a look at our full range of exciting delay creams and sprays. If you want to buy one of our customer favourites, check out the Prowler Red Delay Spray (pictured). Please note that individual results may vary as people respond differently to these products.

Prowler Red Delay Spray 15ml | Male Delay Spray | Prowler | Bodyjoys
Regular price £11.99
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Take control of your pleasure with this delay spray from Prowler Red that helps delay your orgasm. Easy to apply, this spray has a slight cooling effect that contributes to longer performance, and letting you enjoy more sexual pleasure.

Delay condoms

Delay condoms can be a suitable alternative to delay creams and sprays. Delay condoms usually contain mild amide or ester anaesthetics such as lidocaine and benzocaine, which gently numb the glans to reduce penile sensitivity, which in turn can help delay ejaculation, giving you more prolonged sexual pleasure.

Due to our philosophy as a sexual wellness brand, we do not sell products that use such substances. However, as an alternative to using anaesthetics, we recommend condoms with an increased wall thickness that reduce friction on the glans and therefore can also increase your stamina.

Browse our whole range of delay condoms, or just take a look at the Extra-Safe Condoms from Secura (see picture).

Secura Extra Safe Condoms 48 Pack | Extra Safe Condom | Secura Condoms | Bodyjoys
Regular price £21.99
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The silky-smooth Extra Safe condoms by Secura feature an increased wall thickness that reduces friction on the glans and can therefore increase your stamina during intercourse. The super safe condoms with a generous silicone-based coating also provide additional safety during anal sex. The extra strong, tear-proof condoms balance comfort, durability and reliability to give you peace of mind and full sensation during sex.