For many couples or women embarking on solo play, the G-spot is the Holy Grail of sex. It often seems to be nothing more than a myth – men can’t find it and women can’t reach it! If you can relate, read on as we uncover some truths and offer some tips on how to get those big Os rolling in.
There’s a common association of the ‘G’ in G-spot with ‘Grandiose’ – a magnificent goal, yet overly ambitious. Putting it on this pedestal only contributes to its air of unattainability, however. So, let’s sort that part out first.
The ‘G’ actually stands for ‘Grafenberg’ – the name of the German gynaecologist who first studied it (he obviously knew how to mix work and pleasure).
The G-spot is an erogenous zone found inside the vagina that, when stimulated correctly, can cause deep, longer lasting orgasms. The keys are patience, persistence, and a light touch: the more effort you put into light stimulation, the more the G-spot swells and fills with blood. That means, the more you touch it, the easier it is to stimulate, and the more likely you are to get your partner over the O-line.
G-spot orgasms can also trigger female ejaculation – also known as ‘squirting’ or ‘gushing.’ If you or your partner find this a turn on, it’s worth putting in the extra effort to get it right.
The most important question is, of course:
You’ll find the G-spot on the inner, upper front wall of the vagina, around 2 to 3 inches in.
It has a sponge-like texture – you’ll notice a subtle difference in feel to the rest of the vaginal wall. If you’re experimenting with your partner, you may be able to identify it just from the sensation when it’s touched. To get the right angle, it’s recommended to insert 2 fingers (use lube if you need to – and make sure fingernails are cut short) and bend them slightly to rub the inner wall (famously referred to as the “come hither motion”).
If you’re by yourself, you may find it difficult to stimulate your G-spot at this angle. But don’t worry, there’s a solution:
There are a ton of G-spot vibrators that are sculpted and designed especially to reach the G-spot and provide perfectly-targeted stimulation. The gentle vibration, along with repetitive thrusting motions or even side-to-side movements, will push you over the edge. The beauty of G-spot vibrators is that they make it easy to enjoy relaxing solo play, or can equally be used for you and your partner to explore and share the experience together.
If you’re looking for something a little extra to enhance your play, why not try a vibrator that combines G-spot and clitoris stimulation? Some vibrators, like the well-known ‘rabbit‘, are equipped with a soft, external piece which provides sensual vibrations to the clit while the main vibrator is doing its job internally. Combining deep penetration and clitoral stimulation leads to delicious waves of pleasure and brings an intense climax.
G-spot vibrators come in all shapes, sizes and widths, with something to suit every taste. You can also purchase vibrators with different speed settings and intensity levels, allowing you to build up gradually to mind-blowing internal orgasms.
For more sex toy options to stimulate your G-spot, browse through our full range of G-spot vibrators until something catches your eye.
Or follow our recommendation – we won’t let you down. Check out the ToyJoy Ivy Dahlia G-Spot Vibrator (see picture). We promise, both you and your G-spot will be truly amazed.
The silky touch of the Dahlia G-spot vibrator from ToyJoy’s Ivy collection will fulfil your fantasies, get your juices flowing and propel your orgasms to new ecstatic heights. The ergonomic shape of the massager will pamper and stimulate your intimate hot spots, giving you the earth-shattering pleasure you deserve.
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For a doggy-style scenario, take a look at the 3Some Wall Banger G-Spot Vibe (pictured) – the name says it all!
The Wall Banger G-Spot Vibe from 3Some is a multi-function, multi-speed vibrator made of luxury, body-safe silicone. It sports a powerful suction cup base to hold it in place while you go to town, and it’s easy to recharge via USB when you’re done. Lots of fun and endless possibilities. It’s also splash-proof for mild watersports (no immersion!).
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Still unsure of how to proceed? We have a few tips to help you develop your confidence. You’ll get into the swing of it in no time:
The bottom line is to experiment and have fun – follow what feels good for you!
