How to stimulate your P-spot with a prostate vibrator

Prostate massagers are a great reminder that we shouldn’t simply focus on our genitals for pleasure and arousal. Our bodies have much more to offer…and the prostate is one of these juicy hotspots.

The pleasure derived from prostate stimulators is incredibly intense, offering extraordinary orgasms during foreplay, intercourse or solo play. It is therefore no surprise that these backdoor wonder toys rank amongst the most pleasurable sex toys for cis men.

For those who don’t have a prostate, exploring your partner’s P-spot is a pleasurable way to add a new dimension to your sex life.

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The industry has been very inventive in the last few years, launching a variety of exciting new prostate stimulators to meet the steadily growing demand for these anal toys. The major driver behind the new demand is cis men wanting to enjoy the pleasures and sensations of anal stimulation.

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What is the prostate or P-spot?

The prostate, or P-spot, is a muscular gland of the male reproductive system that surrounds the urethra. It has the form and size of a walnut and can be found between the lower end of the bladder and the rectum, two to three inches in.

What makes prostate stimulation so intense?

The prostate is surrounded by sensitive nerve endings, which makes it a pleasure hotspot for men – it’s not called the male G-spot for no reason. You can stimulate the prostate by pressing against the front wall of the rectum.

When touched and massaged (also called prostate milking) just right, the P-spot takes your orgasms to totally new heights: firstly, prostate stimulation enhances the feel of penis pleasure, and secondly, some men can even orgasm from prostate milking alone – they describe it as “earth-shattering full-body orgasm” as the climax sensation is not just localised in the genital area but permeates your whole body with shivers of pleasure.

How to stimulate the prostate for maximum pleasure

While you can massage the prostate with your finger(s), there are a large number of devices dedicated specifically to the massage and stimulation of your prostate. P-spot stimulators all target the prostate gland and hence typically feature slightly curved, bulbous heads that hit the bundle of sensitive nerve endings in this area.

Most prostate massagers have rotating and/or vibrating heads. The devices will therefore either feature control buttons or a wireless remote control. With the latter, you can more easily enjoy a hands-free experience – or hand the control to your partner.

How to use a prostate massager

Insert the prostate massagers slowly and gently with the curved shaft facing up, towards your stomach. If the massager features a secondary head, this should touch your perineum (the area between the base of your balls and your anus).

Your sphincter muscle is naturally tight so it might take a few attempts to relax and get totally comfortable. Therefore, start with a small/slim model, take your time to explore and if you like what you discover, you have a promising starting point for further adventures.

Use plenty of water-based lube with your toys. This eases insertion, enhances comfort and sensation during use, and is compatible with all sex toy materials.

Remember not to force insertion and to stop immediately should you feel any pain.

How to choose a prostate massager

There is a wide variety of toys that stimulate and massage the prostate, ranging from small butt plugs to large anal dildos, in materials ranging from silicone to glass and metal.

Double-headed prostate toys come with two rumbly motors, one for the P-spot massager and one for the part that stimulates the perineum.

There is plenty to choose from but it all comes down to your personal style and preference.

Browse our full range of prostate stimulators and enjoy mesmerising new sexual moments.

Can’t wait to try out a double-headed P-spot massager? We recommend checking out the Rocks-Off 7-Speed O-Boy Prostate Massager (see picture).

Rocks-Off 7-Speed O-Boy Prostate Massager Black | Prostate Stimulator | Rocks-Off | Bodyjoys
Regular price £39.99
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The sleek, streamlined and unintimidating O-Boy is designed to maximise prostate pleasure for beginners and experienced pleasure-seekers alike. Its unique lines and expert angles provide a precise fit against the super sensitive P-spot. A 7-speed motor delivers powerful vibrations to the perineum while you play, and the hands-free design leaves you free to enjoy other pleasures.

If you are looking for something larger and more powerful, take a look at the Nexus Ride Extreme Remote Prostate And Perineum Massager (see picture).

Nexus Ride Extreme Remote Prostate And Perineum Massager | Prostate Stimulator | Nexus | Bodyjoys
Regular price £69.99
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The black Nexus Ride Extreme rechargeable prostate and perineum massager is guaranteed to fulfil all your kinky backdoor desires with its impressive size and powerful vibe action. Designed for those who like it big, this vibrating anal stimulator is all about delivering intense satisfaction. The girthy shaft provides a thorough massage to your P-spot, ensuring mind-blowing pleasure like never before, while the base sends deep rumbly vibrations to your perineum, adding an extra layer of sensational bliss.

And for a classic, hands-free massager, you should consider the Helix SYN Trident Series Prostate Stimulator by Aneros (pictured).

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Aneros Helix SYN Trident Series Prostate Stimulator | Prostate Stimulator | Aneros | Bodyjoys
Regular price £93.49
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The Helix Syn Trident by Aneros is the successor of the world’s most popular hands-free prostate massager, the Helix Syn. The Helix Syn Trident is the synthesis of Aneros’ latest innovations with their most luxurious velvet-touch silicone material. This P-sport stimulators is recommended for experienced anal explorers to take the next step on the pleasure ladder.