Show yourself some love and boost your self-confidence by indulging in comfortable and well-fitting boudoir glam. Self-care has a direct effect on your self-esteem, and it affects those around you as well. The most confident women value themselves just as much as they do others, and always reserve some “me-time” for themselves.
Sexy lingerie is a powerful mood enhancer. Dressing yourself in delicate pieces of lace and mesh can have a big impact on how you feel. So, next time you experience one of those off days, or when you simply need a boost, see if something in your lingerie drawer can help brighten your mood.
Lingerie stimulates and excites in more ways than one – it’s not necessarily all about sex. First and foremost, wearing sexy lingerie is about how you feel.
While dressing up for somebody else is wonderful, the primary focus should always be your own experience. That said, if a particular piece turns you into a confident seductress, your partner will naturally be very pleased to see your confidence glow – and there will be benefits for both of you to enjoy!
If you’re single, wearing beautiful underwear can reinforce positive self-appreciation and offers you a special way to express your individuality and sensuality.
Wearing the right size and style of lingerie accentuates your best features and makes you feel wonderful and confident. Lingerie that doesn’t fit, on the other hand, will be neither comfortable nor flattering – and so it’s really important to get the size right.
Size yourself regularly, as our bodies change frequently and even small changes can affect how the lingerie fits. This is especially true for bras.
No matter how seductive a lingerie set looks in a picture, if you don’t feel comfortable wearing it, you won’t be happy, and the discomfort will show in how you carry yourself. Beauty and sexiness are very much about how we carry ourselves – it’s more about attitude than size or body shape.
Despite what fashion magazines, perfectly styled and made-up social media celebrities, photoshopped marketing images, and others would have us believe, true beauty comes from within. Let’s not let anyone tell us that we aren’t perfect the way we are, and let’s stop beating ourselves up about our supposed “flaws”. In reality, it’s these so-called “imperfections” that make us beautiful and unique. Embrace your uniqueness, it’s what makes you stand out from the crowd.
In terms of genuine connection, people are more attracted to a positive aura than size or shape. Once you realise that self-confidence is mostly a state of mind, you will see beauty in every shape and size.
Put on your new lingerie, get in front of the mirror and learn about your body. Study your curves, notice how the pieces accentuate your figure, consider what colours best compliment your skin. High-waisted briefs enhance the hips and booty and are more flattering for “apple shapes”; a plunge push-up can give a natural top-up to a smaller bust; a babydoll offers a loose silhouette, drawing more attention to the bust and legs. For instance, take a look at the black Cottelli Plus-Size Halter Neck Babydoll (pictured).
Black babydoll from Cottelli Lingerie with easily adjustable halterneck fastener. The tied cups open at the centre to give your lover something to play with and a double layered skirt helps to accentuate the hips.
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We understand that we all have insecurities about our bodies and that we sometimes simply don’t feel ready to embrace our bodies as they are. A sexy robe paired with your lingerie can help you to feel more comfortable.
Feeling confident and sexy starts with selecting a lingerie style that suits you. Figure out which styles and cuts compliment your shape, feel comfortable to wear, and look beautiful to and on you.
Lingerie can express your sensual side. Whether you prefer something fun and flirtatious or feisty is completely up to you. Lingerie is inclusive. Everybody can experience its sensuality and power.
You will know you’ve found the right piece when you are excited about wearing it because it makes you feel so comfortable and beautiful. Ever wanted to try a corset? Take a look at the Cottelli Party Corset (pictured).
Turn heads in the beautifully seductive black Party Corset from Cottelli Lingerie. Made of fine matt satin, this corset accentuates your curves and creates a stunning silhouette that will make you feel irresistible.
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To learn more about all the different lingerie styles on offer, take a look at our 101 advice on sexy lingerie.
A matching set of lingerie is always in vogue. While mixing and matching is fun, can look great and give you plenty of options, matching sets elevate your lingerie game to another level.
A well-coordinated bra and knickers set is a good self-care investment as well – choose a timeless and stylish set that will have you glowing with confidence. For inspiration, check out the blue and black Basque With G-String And Stockings (pictured).
This gorgeous basque by Rimba will make you glow with confidence and look wonderfully sexy. The piece is designed to flatter your figure – lace it up tight and show off your accentuated curves for an erotic night with your partner.
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Wear lingerie whenever and wherever you feel like it. Don’t reserve your best pieces for special occasions or big events. If your lingerie makes you feel sensual and happy, wear it more often.
For lingerie fans, try out some new styles. For instance, try out a corset that you could wear instead of a bra. Or try out a garter belt, which are fun to wear and more comfortable than tights. We encourage you to have an open mind and rethink what you’re used to wearing every day.
In other situations, lingerie can help you create an alluring environment that helps you and your partner feel relaxed and get into the right mood for an erotic evening. Light some candles, dim the light, and showcase your new piece.
Don’t take it too seriously. Opt for the right fit and size, have fun and enjoy how empowered and sexy you are.
Browse our full range of sexy lingerie sets and choose from flattering high-waist, kinky wet-look, elegant fishnet or lace.
