Sex toys aren’t just fun when you’re single! This is a common misconception. Sex toys can be very well integrated into relationships and bring added excitement to your sex life. You don’t need to wait for Valentine’s Day to treat yourselves to something special that you will both love.
Ultimately, couples’ sex toys are an investment into your relationship and your sexual well-being. Sex toys can help you feel even more close and connected to each other.
The best couples’ sex toys are the ones that give stimulation and pleasure to both of you. Whether you use toys during sensual foreplay or passionate sex, there is a wonderful variety of options for adding new sensations to your intimate play. Couples that play together, stay together!
Sex toys add sensations that we can’t perform with our fingers, tongues, or private parts alone…we don’t vibrate, an erection never feels as hard as glass, and you can’t have cunnilingus and penetrative sex at the same time (at least, not in pairs). That said, sex toys are by no means a replacement for your partner, as the delights of using sex toys as a couple is more about your relationship than the toy itself.
Sex with your partner isn’t just one specific act for one specific purpose. Similarly, couples choose to add sex toys to their play for many different reasons:
In another context, sex toys also open up fabulous opportunities for those that struggle to enjoy sexual pleasure or to reach orgasm without additional help, whether because of physical disabilities, erectile dysfunction, sensitivity issues, or other factors.
The truth is – just about any sex toy can be a couples’ sex toy! Their use is as varied as the individuals within a given relationship, and the toys don’t just have to be used for penetrative sex. We use the term ‘couples’ sex toys’ as a way of zooming in on the toys that we believe are particularly enjoyable for partnered pleasure, and especially for couples that are new to sex toys.
There are no rules – whatever toy gives you pleasure is a great toy for you!
Some things to consider when choosing a toy:
If you intend to surprise your partner, make sure you choose a sex toy they will enjoy – don’t forget to add lube to the order. If you’re not sure what they might like, have a conversation to test the water and see if there’s something you both like the sound of. Apart from helping you to choose the perfect toy, such a conversation may also allow you to speak more openly and learn new things about each other’s desires and fantasies.
We’ve observed that many couples who want to introduce toys to their bedroom play and explore their sexuality together opt for our sex toy kits; this is what they’re designed for! Kits offer a sensible way to familiarise yourself with a variety of toys and to experiment with new sensations and dynamics. You will quickly find out what you both like most, and then you can take it from there.
Foreplay is all about getting in the right mood, building emotional affection with your partner and heightening arousal before lovemaking. Try teasing each other’s erogenous areas with foreplay vibrators like clitoral stimulators or finger vibes. If you’re ready to explore the sensations of anal stimulation, there are plenty of wonderful starter toys you can choose from, such as anal beads or butt plugs.
Let’s be honest – most sex toys for couples target the C-spot, or incorporate some form of penetration or anal play. But let’s not forget the penis! Cock-pleasure-centred toys, like cock rings, allow both partners to feel new sensations. If you like the thought of watching your partner in the throes of pleasure, another option could be a stroker or an oral sex simulator.
Strap-ons, of course, are made for playmates. Whether for lesbian couples or straight couples who are into pegging play, a strap-on always brings the heat.
There’s something out there to suit just about any couple, budget, and preference. A sex toy also makes a great gift for your partner, not least because you can expect to share the benefits!
We’ve devised our couples’ sex toy selection to ease you into the most popular styles, and so that you can best figure out which ones are right for you. The toys selected aim at introducing a new dimension of joy into your relationship – hopefully one or some of them will make it into your sexual repertoire.
Check out the categories and see which one jumps out at you. If you are undecided but tempted by a particular style of toy, we’ve recommended a top pick for each type. Also, you might want to take a look at out our blog 7 steps to improve your sex life with your partner.
This award-winning Lelo Tiani 3 couples vibrator provides mind-blowing sensation for both of you during penetration play. With a silky, body-safe silicone finish, this innovative sex toy is designed to be worn during sexual intercourse, offering G-spot stimulation for you and external vibration for you both.
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Enjoy new romantic highs by integrating a couples’ vibrator into your lovemaking. Discover handheld and wearable designs, toys that can be enjoyed by both of you simultaneously, and on each other’s erogenous zones. Our expansive range covers remote control vibrating eggs, bullets, massage wands, vibrating cock rings, dual stimulation vibrators, strap-on dildos and more.
Key features and benefits of vibrators for couples:
Browse our full range of mind-blowing couples’ vibrators end enjoy yourselves.
Or take our word for it – we recommend Lelo’s Tiani 3 Couples Luxury Massager (see picture).
This simple-seeming love egg is anything but! Magic Sundae is an app-controlled toy. It is smart, and powerful, with a tungsten steel motor and self-driving spiral structure to ensure your enjoyment, wherever you are. Use the app to choose from multiple pre-set patterns, or customise your own.
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App-enabled vibrators can be controlled from the comfort of your smartphone via Bluetooth, allowing you to hand complete control of your pleasure over to your partner (or vice versa), connecting them, virtually and immediately, straight to your most intimate areas.
The functionalities of these toys offer plenty of options for fun and pleasure at home, as well as surreptitious play in public!
Key features and benefits of app-controlled vibrators:
Want to add some sex tech to your relationship? Choose from our exciting range of app-controlled vibrators.
Alternatively, we recommend heading straight for the Magic Motion Magic Sundae App-Enabled Love Egg (see picture).
Chic and classy Gigi is a panty vibrator with a wireless remote control and a magnet that holds it in place while you play. Made of solid, body-safe silicone and ABS, this hands-free sex toy comes with 3 vibration speeds and 7 rhythms to choose from – or hand the remote to your partner (the remote works up to 5 metres away) for extra excitement.
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Vibrating knickers (or panty vibrators) empower you in discreetly naughty play. Knicker vibrators boast a hidden pocket for you to slip your favourite bullet vibrator into for hands-free play. Your partner will love being in charge of the remote control!
Key features and benefits of vibrating knickers:
To enjoy big fun in your smalls, browse our full range of sensual vibrating knickers.
If you’d like us to choose for you, consider the Vivre Gigi Panty Vibe (see picture).
The Venus Butterfly Remote Control Venus Penis comes with a long-range remote. Start from across the room, then close in on the object of your pleasure. Featuring a butterfly clit stimulator with an insertable probe that lays over the vulva for blended bliss, this toy promises the ultimate in sensual pleasure.
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Butterfly vibrators provide you with sensuous C-spot stimulation. Designed to sit on or against your clitoris, these toys send thrilling vibrations directly into your sweetest spot. Butterfly vibrators are mostly remote-controlled and typically include a strap-on harness or a suction cup to enhance sensation and keep them in place as you move.
Key features and benefits of butterfly vibrators:
Browse our full range of wonderful butterfly vibrators.
If you asked us, we’d recommend the remote-controlled Venus Butterfly Penis (see picture).
This heavenly Mount’n Peak vibe from Unihorn is sure to find your very own individual pleasure peaks. From its sensual, soft body to its pointy and luscious swirling tongue, this adorable steed has everything you need to take you from excitement to arousal in no time. For the best experience, add a squirt of quality water-based lube to the teasingly twirling tongue.
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Oral sex toys for couples are designed to add a fun new twist to the pleasures of giving and receiving fellatio and cunnilingus. From blowjob strokers to tongue vibrators and clitoral suction vibrators, you will find an fascinating range of sensuous toys to be used with oral play.
Key features and benefits of oral sex toys for couples:
If you’re into the exquisite sensations of fellatio and cunnilingus (who isn’t?), browse our full range of exciting couples oral sex toys.
In a rush but don’t want to miss out? Head straight for the Unihorn Mount’n Peak Swirling Tongue Mini Unicorn Vibe (see picture).
This mini wand vibrator by Bodywand features a soft-touch head with multi-directional usage. It’s quiet as a whisper yet engineered to provide strong and continuous stimulation. Comfortable, waterproof, easy to use and rechargeable via USB for a good time, every time. Comes with 8 different vibration intensity and pattern settings.
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The stimulation from our bath sex toys will allow you to completely indulge during a steamy soak. Use the toys on you and your partner’s erogenous zones for a steady build-up of pleasure and enjoy a blissful release in no time.
Key features and benefits of bath sex toys:
Take a look at our full collection of bath sex toys to pursue the delights of wet pleasure.
If you want us to choose a bathtub toy for you, we suggest the Aqua Mini Rechargeable Silicone Waterproof Massager from Bodywand (see picture).
As we said earlier, every sex toy is potentially a couples’ sex toy, as long as you both fancy playing with it and it adds fun and pleasure to your relationship. Please check out other guides in our advice section to learn more about the following types of popular toys:
