Ever fantasised about being someone else in a sexual encounter? A motorist seducing a policeman to get out of a speeding ticket? Or a pilot having fun in the cockpit with a board crew member while the plane is on auto-pilot? We’ve all been there…
Through role play, couples can develop a closer bond, and living out mutual fantasies can make sex more intimate and fulfilling. On the other hand, it can feel intimidating to talk about role play with your partner if it is something new to your relationship.
Interested in the idea of erotic role play? Okay then, let’s get started.
In role play, you and your partner take on the persona of someone else during a sexual encounter, with the aim of acting out and enjoying your fantasies and using your imagination and creativity to enhance sexual pleasure. For example, you might plan out a situation in which a plumber comes to repair the dishwasher and the home-alone housewife seduces him (or her, or vice-versa).
Role play can take place whenever and wherever you fancy. It may be very simple, or more complex, incorporating costumes or toys – your imagination is the only limit. Some of the role play accessories we’ll cover later in this guide include:
The simplest answer is because it’s fun. Bedroom fantasies and desires are about sensation, seduction, power and submission (consensually so, of course). Role play is an exciting way to act out saucy dreams and flirt with your fantasies and desires. People enjoy it for the most varied reasons:
Try to free yourself from the conventions that apply outside the bedroom. Role-playing desires and fantasies often contradict our roles and beliefs in daily life. For example, you may want to be a naughty nurse or a call boy in the bedroom – or another role very different to your real-life interests.
As always, the first thing to do when you want to explore a new realm of sexual pleasure, is communicate with your partner. Find out whether there is mutual appetite for the adventure and whether you are on the same page in terms of expectations.
As some may feel insecure and awkward when confronting their partner with role-playing, it could be easier to bring up the topic outside of sexual scenarios. This gives the other partner time to think about it without feeling pressured to do something immediately.
You could test the water by asking something like, “do you find uniforms a turn-on? Did you ever fantasise about seducing a police officer?” and develop the conversation from there. It doesn’t have to feel awkward. It is essential that neither of you feels ashamed or judged when discussing sexual desires.
Before diving into role play, set yourself some boundaries within which you feel comfortable to play. Consenting to role play doesn’t mean that everything is acceptable. Having clarity on that front makes the play enjoyable and free of misunderstandings. It might also be a good idea to establish a safe word so both of you know if the other needs to stop.
Short-sleeved floor-length robe with iridescent rhinestones, sheer and eye-catching design. Add some mystery to your bedroom play with this stunning cover-up from Leg Avenue.
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Our sexy dresses and robes exude bedroom glamour and will set the stage perfectly, whether you intend to seduce or surrender.
Shop our full collection of sexy dresses and robes and check out different features like stretchy fishnet, wrap-around lace, wet-look, see-through and much more.
Want to feel fierce and fabulous? Take a look at the Floor Length Sheer Robe from Leg Avenue (pictured).
Step into sultry sophistication with the Noir Halterneck Jumpsuit in captivating black. Crafted from power-wet-look fabric, this jumpsuit fits like a second skin, making you feel effortlessly elegant and alluring. Soft, stretchy, and designed for maximum comfort, it’s perfect for those who crave both style and ease.
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Celebrate and flaunt your sexy feminine curves in one of our super tight, figure-hugging catsuits (aka jumpsuits).
Whether you are a dom or a sub, catsuits are the perfect accessory for a kinky night with BDSM and seductive role play – browse our full range of sexy catsuits.
Want to play Catwoman? Then go for the Halterneck Jumpsuit by Noir Handmade (pictured), which skims your curves in glossy fabric.
The School Girl Uniform from Cottelli Costumes features a long-sleeved body paired with a necktie collar. The schoolgirl ensemble combines opaque checkered fabric with transparent white powernet, creating a delicate and alluring mix. The garment is designed with soft and elastic materials for optimal comfort.
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For kinky role play in the bedroom or an upcoming themed party, you will find the perfect outfit in our captivating costumes collection.
Browse our range of sexy costumes to suit every role play fantasy.
Back in school to seduce your teacher? Check out the School Girl Costume from Cottelli (pictured).
Combine a pair of sexy gloves with your lingerie for a seductive twist. These handless gloves with finger loops from Rimba are a great accessory to take boudoir glamour to another level.
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If you’ve got a fantastic outfit, but really want to maximise your impression, a sexy accessory puts the cherry on top of your look. Our selection of lingerie and dress-up accessories will turn your erotic outfit from sexy to glowing-hot.
Browse our full range of sexy accessories.
How about some handless gloves to go with your lingerie? Check out the Handless Gloves With Finger Loop (pictured).
